I don't think men deliberately try to be attractive to males or to females. Gay men, however, can judge their own attractiveness and grooming in a different light. It's difficult for many people to judge attractiveness not holistically.
Oh I don't know about that at all. They might be clueless at it, but they do try. I know for absolutely certain that I started dressing better and grooming more when I wanted to attract my wife. Perhaps it's just that most of them don't start out as disgusting nerds. :o)
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