[identity profile] chocorisu.livejournal.com 2006-11-13 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh I don't know about that at all. They might be clueless at it, but they do try. I know for absolutely certain that I started dressing better and grooming more when I wanted to attract my wife. Perhaps it's just that most of them don't start out as disgusting nerds. :o)

[identity profile] gemini6ice.livejournal.com 2006-11-13 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean they don't deliberately aim for attractiveness geared to females or geared to males. They aim simply for "attractiveness."

[identity profile] daerr.livejournal.com 2006-11-17 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
No, I think they aim for attractiveness towards females... it's just that heterocentrism makes this seem to be the only kind to them.