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[prog]

One reason I support those fighting for legalized gay marriages is that all the arguments made by the other side are dumb. Consistently dumb, and too easy to beat down. The only reason I can see that you'd go with any of them is if you find gay people, or the concept of them getting married, repugnant. And that's fine, free to be, but that doesn't mean you should go codify that into law, man...

Here's a choice quote from a state rep that's been in a few boston.com articles:

"Mother Nature left her blueprint behind and she left it in DNA, a man and a woman," said Rep. Marie Parente, D-Milford. "I didn't create that combination, Mother Nature did."

I will leave the non-sequitur within that statement alone, and instead take what I think she's trying to say: "Nature intends that men and women combine their genetic information to produce children." OK, fair enough; I can accept this statement as true. But the whole statement becomes a non-sequitur in context of a debate on gay marriage. I mean: last night I watched some cartoons. While performing this action, I failed to exchange my DNA with any fertile female members of my species. It wasn't even on my mind! Therefore this act was unnatural and perverse!! Bleah.

I can see some counterpoints one could make to this, and I think they're also paper-thin. I have too much work to do to amuse myself tearing through them. (I will do so on request, but.) I guess I just wanted to vent a little.

Interesting point: One of my orkers is gay and single and has been jokey about "I can get married now, @whee," but I have since learned that another person I know, through a gaming group, really is hoping to marry her parter come May, to put a solidly legal roof over their family, as they are having a baby soon. This made me suddenly see the debate in an entirely new light.

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There's a good chance that I would have supported the civil union route instead of full-on marriage, because I tend to think that -- in any controversy -- compromise is a better first step than radical change, even if that change is one's true goal.

But when the MA high court ruled that civil unions don't cut it, and that it was full marriage or nothing, I said: Well, OK, if that's how it is. So that's what I support now.